Why?

I have made this website to compile information on paraphilias and other related topics such as proshipping. Some stuff linked may not align with my actual morals but if there is anything I consider to be interesting I will link it anyways because this is just as much for me as it is everyone else.
I do not support pro contact ideas
My personal stances will not interfere with what I am sharing and I will try and link as much informational content as I can and some personal statements I have found so that everyone can make up their own minds.
I have decided that I should make this website because I experience a lot of paraphilias myself (some more tame and others a lot worse) and I have seen a lot of misinformation which frustrates me, I am very active in the community on Twitter and I am branching out into other social medias as well so I have come across a lot of different opinions, some of which are not based in factual evidence so I decided that I should create a website with a lot of links to relevant information.
Some information is only relevant to specific paraphilias (such as the links to the mental abilities of some common animals zoophiles are attracted to) but everything here will be organised into categories so you can easily find studies on specific topics.
If you want to have a more in depth look into my own personal opinions I will have a section at the bottom of this page going into a lot of detail, I don’t really care if anyone disagrees with me but keep in mind that my opinions have been formed over a long period of time so don’t think that you can change my mind.

Proshipping and other similar stuff

Zoophilia and relevant topics

MAP stuff (informational)

MAP stuff (statements, female specifically because I think it’s important)

My Opinions (for those who are interested)

Zoophilia - Bestiality - Feral Porn

I support zoophilia as in I support the paraphilia itself, if you have even briefly skimmed the websites I linked above you will know that sexual preferences are uncontrollable. I personally do not support sex with non human animals AKA bestiality, I am inclined to be against it due to the physical health risks to both the animal and human. I can understand the point of view that some zoophiles have when they choose to support bestiality but it isn’t something that I’d personally support even if I do experience a level of attraction to dogs myself, I think that because of the risk of an animal developing behavioural issues I won’t ever pursue something like that but if you do I urge you to do your own research; I won’t support your decision but at the very least try to keep the animal safe.
Interspecies sex does happen between different species of non human animals, these cases are largely due to things like rape or a lack of availability of a same species partner, of course rape is normal in the animal kingdom but humans should know better. I do believe that animals can consent to their own species and similar ones (horses and donkeys for example) but many animals generally mate with force (like ducks), humans are not an animal that should mate with force.
I am supportive of feral porn, I think it is a valid way of coping with zoophilic attractions if you are against bestiality and it can also be hot to non zoophiles so go wild. Feral porn harms nobody but please make sure that if you are posting NSFW that you weed out any underage followers, also don’t use images of real animals being hurt as reference images (a reference of an animal’s genital area is fine in my opinion but not of an animal being tied up or in clear distress),
I know not everyone will agree with me on my stances here but I am not willing to debate these ones in particular, I will gladly discuss any of my other opinions in more detail but zoophile discourse has led to a lot of anxiety for me so I’m distancing myself from that specific community and actively block everyone who disagrees for my own mental health.

Necrophilia - Sex with corpses

Once again I am supportive of those who have the paraphilia themselves but I don’t support acting on it.
I do think that if there was a legal system in place to donate your body to a necrophile after you die it could be fine to act on but this is unlikely to ever happen at least for a long time.
I’m against the digging up of graves and using random corpses for sexual pleasure because of the whole respect for the dead thing but it is still less harmful to act on in my opinion than either zoophilia or paedophilia.
I am not firmly against sex with corpses but I think it should only be done if you had an agreement beforehand, otherwise it’s disrespectful and you should just try a sex doll or something instead.

Nepiophilia - P(a)edophilia - Hebephilia - Ephebophilia

Just like any other paraphilia minor attractions are uncontrollable and morally neutral. The age of consent in my country is 16 and it’s 16 in most countries so in my opinion if you are an adult you shouldn’t be with someone younger than 16, I think that if you are younger and choose to have sex it should be with someone no more than a couple of years younger or older but just be careful anyways and if you can please wait.
I am FIRMLY against adults having sex with anyone under the age of consent or even dating someone under the age, I am also against CSEM.
Therapy should be easily accessible to both completely non offending maps and those who have offended in the past without the fear of judgement or potentially dangerous repercussions. I don’t think that therapy is always necessary and I certainly don’t agree with the whole forced chemical castration (does that even work with afab bodies?) and conversion therapy, I think that therapy should be optional as should chemical castration. Conversion therapy would simply not work, I know everyone hates it when paraphilias are compared to LGBTQ+ but I say this as a bisexual that I view my age and species based sexualities in the same way I view my gender based sexuality and I know conversion therapy wouldn’t stop me from finding women hot so it wouldn’t stop me from finding someone younger or a different species hot and all that really matters in my opinion is my actual actions because I’m not a danger to every adult human living female so why the difference?
Acknowledging and accepting an attraction is not condoning abusive relationships, it’s healthier to acknowledge it than to deny it and basically delude yourself. Being open about said attraction isn’t condoning abuse either, if everyone kept quiet then there would be no resources available to those who are struggling. If you can be open and you have the mental strength to do it I urge you to talk about your experiences, online though because that’s safer.
I don’t believe that every adult+minor relationship results in trauma but the risk is too high so I am against anyone pursuing that kind of thing.
I support the use of sex dolls and if they are helpful for someone they should be used but I’m not sure about the legality so check your country’s laws.

Lolishocon - Cub porn

I support anything depicted in fiction, some drawings are technically illegal in my country whether they are realistic or not so I don’t look at that kind of thing but I think my country is stupid in that respect, fictional outlets are a good thing.
If you like lolisho or cub and are against anti c maps using it you are the biggest fucking hypocrite and I have no respect for you whatsoever.

AAMs

Being into adults as a minor is normal, it’s such a common experience that I don’t see any issue with it but when you start trying to sell images of yourself that is insanely dangerous and also illegal. Don’t date adults as a minor, don’t possess inappropriate images of yourself if you are a minor (under 18), it’s illegal even if it’s of yourself.

Some context as to why I don’t support antis, usernames are censored as I don’t believe in leading a witch-hunt despite the fact that they would be unlikely to give me the same respect because in their own words I am “disgusting” and should be “put in the fucking meat grinder”
There are more examples of antis being shitty but this section is for my own personal experiences, thankfully I don’t get a whole lot of hate anymore but it does happen.
This is all gathered over multiple dates, from many people and from various platforms

Antis don’t care that I have never abused anyone and never plan on it, they don’t care I’ve never done anything illegal and I don’t look at illegal stuff, they only care about blaming me for the way my brain happened to end up.
I intend on always owning animals (including some I am attracted to) but I am more attracted to humans so it will be very easy for me to not have sexual relations with them.
Even though I want to be a mother I have decided for several reasons that I will never have children of my own, my thoughts being only one of those reasons but still the main reason, I also just avoid them in general when I can but it’s pretty much impossible to completely avoid them. I have basic impulse control and I’m also just a fan of not doing illegal shit because sex isn’t worth getting arrested when there’s a few things I actually want to do with my life (small little things but things I couldn’t do if I was arrested).
I have come to terms with the fact that I will have to settle for someone I am less attracted to, it makes me sad but that’s life and the only thing that helps is making silly little posts on the internet to scream into the void about how I’m actually quite a nice person and I only think about bad things so really nobody should hate me.
It’s a particularly lonely experience being AFAB and experiencing paraphilias that are basically never seen in females, I wish there was more research. Masochism is more common in females but that is one of the very view things that doesn’t interest me, I am uncomfortable in any type of submissive role even in non sexual scenarios.
I do not and never will condone abuse, everyone who takes the time to actually listen to me will know that.

My experience talking about my paraphilias in real life

Antis online are way too comfortable encouraging people to hurt themselves whether they have harmed anyone or not. Online when I have talked about my paraphilias I have gotten sent hate and basically been harassed to the point of having full blown panic attacks and almost being physically sick.
My experience in real life has been completely different.
I told my mum years ago about being into dogs, I told her over text and said that I didn’t want it to be brought up again, all she said was that if it got any worse to let her know and that there was nothing I could tell her that would stop her loving me. It has never been brought up again by either of us because I made a clear boundary due to at the time feeling a lot of shame.
A lot more recently I had a similar conversation with my dad (tecnically stepdad but I like him more than my bio one). This time the conversation happened face-to-face and I basically was really drunk and told him everything, not even just the zoophilia stuff but the sadistic stuff and the whole younger people thing (like I said it starts at 0 and ends at around 14 for guys and that with girls it’s 0 to around 70). His reaction? To hug me and tell me that it was fine because he knows I wouldn’t actually do anything even though I gave specific examples of times I’ve been attracted to specific people (one was maybe 6 months). I kept repeating myself saying that I’m a decent person and that I don’t know what went wrong considering I’ve never been abused or anything like that and it was so good for me to finally talk to someone I trust.
So that is two positive experiences.
I could never tell my bio dad though, he is repulsed by the idea of someone being attracted to animals (whether they actually participate in bestiality or not) and he graphically describes the way he’d kill someone like me. My bio dad is also against even mildly kinky stuff, he’s so violently vanilla and considers himself superior for it and thinks kink is just an excuse for men to abuse women (like how? I’m also literally a dominant and AFAB).
I guess most of the time in real life people are actually more likely to have common sense but always make sure to test the waters, I did that before explicitly saying anything and it’s worked for me.
My family doesn’t consider me to be a danger to anyone, I live with a dog and a much younger sister and there is no fear there for them because I’m not dangerous. I could do bad things if I wanted to but I don’t and they know that.
My reasons for telling some of my family everything was purely because at some point I would really like to talk to a professional and talking about difficult stuff is always hardest the first time so I wanted to get that out of the way, I also think that it is good to have a proper support system especially for more stigmatised mental health issues (paraphilias aren’t always mental disorders but mine definitely are). Anyways that is my experiences and reasons for being open to my family.